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There seems to be a lot of guys having troubles with finding girlfriends and they start worrying about the issue and feeling like they are worse than others or incomplete. I have a total different view point which I feel is a lot healthier than this on the named topic and felt like I wanted to share my view on the “girlfriends”-thing with you.

I want a Girlfriend – The “normal” People who have Girlfriends

First of all – most people who have attractive girlfriends, they don’t even feel any different because they have a girlfriend. You are making up a wall of glass between those guys and you. You think you need to have a girlfriend and that it makes you better, that it would make your life special. You want a girlfriend.

But most guys who have a healthy relationship, well for them, they didn’t care and it rather just happened. They don’t make a fuzz about it at all.

My Experience with looking for a Girlfriend

I should admit though, that I have never had a real girlfriend and that it still is a little of a mystery for me as well. The furthest I have gone, was being “married” to a ( pretty attractive ) girl on facebook for about… 5 hours? Haha!

Well, I had dated a girl for about 2 months also. We didn’t see each other that often, but we called all the time and texted maybe even more, so it felt very girlfriend, boyfriend-like.

And how did it happen?! The last thing I was thinking about was a relationship. It just happened. Oh and how did it end? When I wanted the relationship to enhance my self image. This repealed her, and things went down and I had a hard time forgetting about her and moving on with my life. Difficult times.

What I learned from my Dating-experience and Observations about Girlfriends

My lesson out of this and all my other life experience is, that you need to have your life and be focused on your life exclusively and then maybe it will just happen or it won’t. As long as you are making an effort and know how to flirt with girls and where to meet girls, you will always have girls in your life. Who cares, if the relationship status in facebook then is single or set in a relationship. If you care, you should think twice about your reasons for staying with this girl, and maybe learn how to be happy with yourself and your life on your own first.
One friend who I know constantly is seeing new very attractive girls, he never is in an official relationship.

Ending

I hope this article gave you some food for thought, and what I secretly hope is that it will change your behavior and improve your dating life. Good Dating!

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As to make this post a little brighter let’s end it with this:

Important I need a Girlfriend Quotes

“A Code of Honor: Never approach a friend’s girlfriend or wife with mischief as your goal. There are just too many women in the world to justify that sort of dishonorable behavior. Unless she’s really attractive”
- Bruce Jay Friedman