How to meet girls

As guys we always have to face the fact that we are the man and therefore society tells us, that we are the ones who have to take initiative and do the first ( and most of the following ;) ) steps when it comes to meeting women.

I bet most guys don’t really know where to meet women, but I have already covered that subject to a big extent in my article on where to meet women. Now I’d rather talk about some more refined aspects you need to pay attention to when it comes to meeting new girls.

how to meet girls

Committing to learning this!

Upfront I want to say that as all other things and crafts the more you repeat meeting strangers the better you will get at it – so if you really want to get good at this, you should dedicate yourself to learning, just like you would dedicate yourself to learning to play a piano or the guitar.

The longer you are in and the more you practice meeting new girls the better and smoother you will get and the better you will be feeling while doing it, of course in the long term – everybody can have bad days and nights ;)

Best Place to meet Girls and the Importance of Being relaxed

I cannot emphasise this more. The first thing you should pay attention to if you are meeting new people and especially new girls is how you feel yourself.

How relaxed or also how tense you feel yourself will be the first thing girls know of you and the most important factor in if you
will creep those girls out or make them love you.

Just think for yourself, how do you feel about an easy going and relaxed person who does not worry and then think how you feel yourself around about somebody who is tense and nervous and wants something from you.

Put yourself in those situations. You should realise that you would rather enjoy your time with somebody outgoing, relaxed and fun who will give you good feelings.

Where can i meet Girls and the golden Rule of However you feel she will feel!

Also it is scientifically proven that however you feel she will feel. There are things in our heads called mirror neurons which will imitate the feelings of other persons exactly the same to speed up communication
in ancient times.

Imagine how useful this was if there was an attack of animals for example – one person of the tribe senses the animals.

He feels anxiety of course and before he can say anything the whole tribe senses the same thing and is ready for the animal attack.

Now if you meet new people and feel anxiety or feel bad for yourself they’d rather go away and go talk to persons with good feelings because they feel secure around them – hope it makes sense and gives you a reason for feeling relaxed and understanding social dynamics better.

how to meet girls

Being upfront

Imagine you are meeting a cool and confident but totally open and expressive guy who is having fun and sharing the fun with you.

Then on the other hand you meet some rich dude who thinks he is better than you and has put up a fake persona and tries to put you down and shows off with his money.

And then you meet a very anxious guy who wants something from you but can’t really express what he wants. He makes you nervous.

Who would you meet the most and who would you hang out the most with?

For me it is easy. I’d most like to hang out with the cool guy and just have some fun with him.

For girls this would most likely be the same. They would like to meet the cool and fun guy the most and the other ones, they would be put off by them. I think most people should come to the same conclusion
if playing those scenarios in your head.

Applying the Info!

Following from this how could you apply this information for you meeting new girls? Well, that is easy – be the cool and fun guy and girls will enjoy their time around you and will want more.

Meeting girls online – Where to meet Girls online?

Honestly I would not recommend meeting girls online that much. You don’t know and don’t really see the girl. It’s not my type of thing, but if I tried, I would go for some paid sites like eharmony.com and I heard plentyoffish.com is good, but I’d rather recommend to sticking to reality – and getting real results with girls!

Be the person you would want to meet – cool, open, confident, bringing something to the table and not just taking it all – and then you will have success with meeting girls, guaranteed ;)

So I hope those things could help you for how to meet girls. I’ve done this stuff quite often and I know it works.

Of course you should use common sense with this and don’t complain if it didn’t work out when you were unhygienic or totally socially out of calibration ;) As I said practice makes perfect so have fun with this info;)

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